Coming to an understanding (pt. 2 Men)

I told you I'd be back and I really wanted to get this post out before I lost it, rather than waiting a week. I hope everyone in the northeast US is trying to stay warm. I hope this read will at least distract you all from the cold for a little while.

     So in my last post I made a few statements and asked a few questions about a few things when it comes to men understand women. I hope it was very insightful to the female readers While it only named three things we men don't exactly understand about women, the list is much bigger than that but I'll save that for an updated post.As promised this post will be about some of the things women don't understand about men.
     Here's my starting question and I'm sure it's already on most of your ladies' minds. Why is it that men only think about sex? Well ladies to me that question is more of a stereotype than fact. But also a little more scientific than you also realize. Most of us may not care to realize or accept this but humans are just one of the many species of animals on this planet. So what is in an animals most primal nature? To continue the species' existence. It's not that we men all choose to think about sex, it's that its pre-programed into our genetic nature to want to reproduce. While the craving for sex may be a little stronger in some men than it is in others nonetheless it's very hard to fight if not impossible to stop.
     So we men take you out on dates, wine you, dine you, fight for you, sometimes in extreme cases even kill for you. Yes we do it because we care about you, love you, and want to protect you from harm but it's also to protect our mating rights from other men and even other women who pose a threat to us and our "mating rights". So try to cut us a little slack ladies and blame evolution for the way we are. On to the next questions shall we?
     Why do men talk to women like they're one of the guys? Trust me when I say ladies that we're not trying to diss your sexuality when you talk to you like your one of the guys. If anything you should accept it like a badge of honor. It means we're so comfortable around you that we don't just see you as a friend, girlfriend, or wife, it means we see you as a companion. It means you've become the Bonnie to our Clyde. While sometimes we tend to take it a little too far just try to understand we don't always mean to actually make you feel like your a male. We're just trying to show that we think your just that awesome. So try to remember this one ladies, the next time he asks you to hang out with the boys or to play some video games with him it simply means he's sharing his world with you.
      Why do men get upset when a woman moves his things? This one might not seem like such a big deal to you, but ladies this is one of a mans biggest pet-peeves. Sometimes you might see the area of the house he uses the most to be a little messy or unorthodox, but try to remember that's exactly it. He uses that area a lot so of course when he puts something in that area that might not seem like it belongs there to you, it belongs there to him. No man likes it when he puts something down somewhere and then comes back later to look for it to find out that it's been moved. Especially when we ask you where you moved it to and you don't even remember. Sometimes we like to keep our things out in the open where we can see them, so when you put them up it creates a situation that makes us feel like telling you to just not touch our stuff. So I'll be the one to tell you before he does and hopefully save you a bad situation HaHa. Ladies leave his things be. If it bothers you to see the area in a clutter then just bring it to his attention and SUGGEST him to at least straighten it up, but you would be wrong to take it upon yourselves to move his things all together.

     So I hope these things have given you ladies a little insight to some of the things you don't understand about us, weren't too sure about, or you only thought you understood. We men are as complicated to you as you are to us, but if you really want to understand any man in your life whether it's your significant other, relative, or even some one you want to know then all you have to do is ask them before taking it upon yourselves to assume. The same goes for us men as well. Fellas a woman will respect you more if you just tell her upfront how you feel about going shopping or even the toilet seat issue HaHa. Trust me if he/she knows ahead of time it'll save both of you a lot of time in the future. We're not mind readers so we can only go by what we tell each other. Ladies if there are any others things I didn't mention in this post that you might be curious to know about men then feel free to leave it in the comments and I promise I will reply to all questions to the best of my knowledge. I might even have a question or two for you about women HaHa.

Coming to an understanding? (pt.1 Ladies)

Good evening everyone and welcome back. I seem to have lost quite a few of you but I'm hoping to win you all back with this post and other. Hope you guys enjoy the read.

So this post will be another one of the subjects I spoke about in my previous post. Here's my starting question. Can men and women ever really understand each other? I'm sure the majority of you have already said "No", to which I personally agree with. To those of you who have said "Yes" to this question I'd be more than willing to read your reason in the comments section but please continue the post to understand my side and why I think we can't understand each other. This post itself will be majority of the things I among millions of other men don't understand about women.
       Being a man, to me trying to understand women is impossible. It's like trying to say the alphabet backwards while reading the alphabet forward, which might I add is harder than it sounds if not more trouble than it's worth. Which is exactly how I feel about trying to understand women. Most of the time it's more trouble than it's worth but it doesn't stop us as men from trying. So we use the direct women in our lives to try to get a better outlook as to why women are the way they are. If any of you men have been shopping with your girlfriends then most of you have probably endured the same thing
       You'd go into a store with them, they'd try on multiple things, and then leave the store with absolutely nothing just to drag you into another store with them. Sometimes this can go on for more than three stores. Why do this to us ladies? Now don't get me wrong because men do it too but it's more consistent with women. Here's another thing. Why do women make such a fuss when men leave the toilet seat up?
        You yell at us saying things like "What if I fell in?". But the fact of the matter is you didn't fall in. How many women complain to they're men about leaving the toilet seat up after he uses it? Now how many of you women put the toilet seat UP for us men when your finished using it? Complaining about falling in is invalid because you don't walk to the toilet blindfolded. You see the toilet before you get to it, and even if your rushing and running to the bathroom it takes less than a second to realize the seat is up.
         No man I have ever seen has gone to a woman and complained about her leaving the seat down because it doesn't take very long for us to put the seat back up and go on about our business. Now this next question is probably one of thee biggest questions among men today. Why is it that even in this day and age most women still won't approach a man. Ladies if you see a man you like or a man you want to get to know then make a move. Don't stand there and wait for him to possibly come to you. We're not mind readers and we damn sure won't think your desperate. We'll most likely think "Wow she must really like me if she made the first move". It's mostly you women who consider yourselves desperate for approaching a man because we as men would only respect you more for being real and bold enough to make the first move
        It shows us when you see something you want and or like, you go after it. Think of it this way ladies. You walk into a clothing store and see an outfit you like, you go get it before someone else gets it before you right? Did that outfit read your mind and come to you first? Did it ask for your number? No it didn't, so try to see us men the same way.
       Times are changing ladies so I think it's only fair that we men ask you to change as well. We men don't consider going shopping with you to be a date. Now that doesn't mean we don't want to go shopping with you at all it just means we wish you wouldn't take so long to get an outfit. Also stop with the complaining about the toilet seat. If we leave it up it won't kill you to just put it back down. We have to pick it back up to use it don't we? And last but far from being the least. Go after him ladies. Don't sit there and hope you've given him enough signs for him to make the first move because if you don't go get him there are those women who are already bold enough to go after him... You ladies are great but it's time to get it together. Try not to feel too picked on because my next post will be things you women don't understand about men. That's right my fellow men, it's our turn.