As we grow older. (pt.2)

Welcome back guys and thanks for being patient with me while waiting for part 2 of my last post. You guys are probably wondering why I would even split it into 2 posts. Well think about it this way if you were or are an employer would you rather read a 1 page resume or a 2 page resume? Get where I'm coming from now? But anyway lets get back to this since I've kept you waiting for so long Ha Ha.

So in the last post I got into the relations between human males and females and closed the post of the subject of how some relationships are forced upon some people by society. But in this post I'll be talking about the people who have more so called "freedom of choice" when it comes to the people we "choose" to be with. What's with all the quotation marks you ask? Well lets stop and think about it for a second. Do we really choose the people we think we should be with? Has one of your friends or family members ever recommend and sway you into talking to someone? Well lets follow the pathway that leads to those questions and hopefully answer them.
          After Our candy crushes have matured enough where they could become serious likes, it's like society has to have its input after minding it's business for the first decade and a half of our lives. Sure some of us have full control over the people we choose to be with but how many times has that worked for all of us? Some may be lucky enough to have found that special someone and sneaked under society's radar but not every one with the "freedom to choose" has that luck. We're with our first boyfriend or girlfriend and then "BAM!!" they do something or we do something that allows the people in our lives to feel they need to have an input.
     Things like us or them having feelings for someone else, lies, cheating... the list goes on. But some where down the line we end up opening our ears to what they have to say. Things like "You shouldn't be with him/her." or "I know some one that you would be great with.". Have you ever heard the saying "If you hear something enough times you start to believe it?", well that's what happens in this case. You have so many people coming at you from so many different directions you don't know what to believe. So that person you chose to like is now out of the picture and in comes some one society chose for you.
           But here's where it gets really deep. You yourself are no angel. We've all been a member of society... giving some one else the advice we think they should take. Most of the time it's because we don't want to happen to them what already happened to us but other times it's because we're just following the crowd. So have I answered the questions in the first paragraph? I hope so. But MY moral to all this is anything that can happen with you and some one you chose can happen with you and some one society chose for you.
             So I hope all of this has helped you guys. No matter where we are in the world it's always the same. Society is the younger cousin of Jealousy and Friendship. Don't follow what society has to say about YOUR life and don't give society a reason to give it's input. Close your ears to Society but also don't be a member of society that is telling some one else who you think they should be with. Love and let Love. Grow old with someone you love and you alone chose to love. But also let others do the same.

As we grow older. (pt.1)

Hello again everybody. Hello to those who have already read my first post and are returning, and hello to those who are new readers. I'd like to thank you all for taking the time to read and follow my posts. If you haven't read my first post I would recommend doing so before reading this one just so you can have an idea of the kind of things I'll be blogging about.

So I'll be getting a little deeper than I was in my last post. As deep as some of you may though it already was I assure you I can get much much deeper than that Ha Ha. In my last post I spoke on the economy and financial condition that the USA is currently in but in this post I'll be speaking about "The human relationship between male and female". It's kind of funny when you think about it really.
        No matter where you are in the world it's always the same. When we were kids we thought about how icky the opposite sex was. "Ew he has cooties" or "Ew girls are gross". But as we get older we start to see the reasons why our parents wanted us to think that the opposite sex was gross and icky. You see it's always simpler when your a child, it's always easy to see things in such an opaque kind of way. But it all changes when we get older.
        We grow older, the crushes we had on each other as children become more serious crushes once we hit puberty. Hormones raging, bodies changing, and before you know it that little boy or little girl that we once thought had cooties or were icky and gross are now starting to seem a little more tolerable. "Why?" you may ask. Well think about it for a second. If we grew up into adulthood thinking that the opposite sex was still icky and gross there would be a whole lot fewer people on this planet right now. Though when you think about it a little deeper that might not be such a bad thing Ha Ha. Anyway lets stay on topic shall we?
       So we go from thinking the opposite sex is gross and icky to having candy crushes on them and no I'm not referring to the game though the crushes are very sweet and cute. BUT it's the next phase after that where everything gets rocky. And that phase is when our candy crushes turn into mature likes. Once we're old enough to understand our feelings (which is right when we hit our preteens) the society of  where we live just has to butt it's ugly face through the door of our lives. Whether we're forced to like and be with some one we don't want to, or our friends and loved ones just have to have a say so in the person we choose to like, society just has to get itself involved. Now in some regions of the world (which I don't think I'll ever understand but I won't judge on) when a boy and girl reach a certain age, they're forced to be together by they're parents or families for the sake of the honor or name of the family. Sometimes it can be the boy or girl they grew up with or in other cases it can be a complete stranger. In either case it was society's doing and not the doing of the two individuals being put together.

It's about time for a change!

Hey there everyone! This is the 1st post of my 1st blog so thanks a head of time for taking the time to read.

Lets start things off easy before we get into the deep stuff. If your someone who lives in North America then you know full well the kind of economy we live in. Prices going up and wages going down. People losing jobs simply because their company can't afford to keep them employed. But when you think about it, who else is there to blame besides our so called government?
          Think about it... Stores raise product prices because the product companies demand more money to make the product. They demand more money for the product because the government raises taxes for the company to keep producing the product. Now tell me if this makes sense. The government is so power hungry and greedy that they are demanding higher wages and more taxes to be paid from the people who CAN'T afford it but demand less money for the rich who obviously CAN afford it. 
        But here's the part that makes more sense to me. If the government was to lower taxes and prices back to say... how they were in 1999, where you could go to the store and get a candy bar, a bag of chips, AND a soda all for $1 they would make so much more money than they are asking for now because people would be glad to and want to spend that kind of money. Not to mention that would leave more money in our pockets to pay bills, rent, and what ever other things we may do with our money. 
    The USA is in such terrible shape that the president has become more of a figurehead to the public than the leader of the free world. At the end of the day he still has to answer to the government just the same as we do. Which is also why I believe the president isn't allowed to hold office for more than 8 years at a time because the government fears he would gain too much power from the people. But we as the people need to understand 1 thing....like companies that are nothing without their employees, THE GOVERNMENT IS NOTHING WITH OUT THE PEOPLE!!
        The government only has as much power as we (the people of the public) allow them to have for it's us the regular people who put them in the place they are now. And I think that's what they are seeming to forget. They keep us in place with the fear from the power we gave to them in the 1st place. They're NOT gods. Their blood is the same color as ours. They always tell us change doesn't happen over night. They always say Rome wasn't built in a day. Well neither was any other great city in the world. The progress of change doesn't happen over night but change happens in an instant. Faster than our brains can process it. The government want's us to think they can't make changes over night but the people with real sense know full well that's a lie. 
           If the government has the technology to find any one on this planet, any where, at anytime then they have the power (which we gave them to do with) to make change happen over night. If they were to say and put on paper "From today on prices and taxes will be reduced to how they were in the year of 1999 and will stay that way for the rest of time as we as human beings know it" and then put the official seal on it then it would be made law.  If you ask me or any one else who lives in the so called United States of America, that sounds pretty damn good. It also sounds like a progress of change that can happen over night. Broadcast it to the public across the country and see that it is change that happens in an instant. Now most of us know how a law becomes a law, but why does a thought need to go through so much to become a law? Because that's how they keep us in control. Product companies will lower product prices for store bought items which will in term save us more money, The more money we have, the more we can spend and the more money the government will make, and they'll make it a hell of a lot faster than they are now. That sounds to me like change that can happen over night.